Now that holidays are just about over I can hear everyone breathing a big collective sigh of relief. What was worth the extra effort, and what wasn't; measured by the toll it took on you to make it happen, and the joy it provided to others. What 20% of your efforts resulted in 80% of joy recieved by others? For me and my family I realize that the pumpkin pies are definately a priority! Store bought just won't do for my daughter! The few wished-for-gifts and the tree is next,